I keep attracting the same type of person into my life, what do I have to do to attract "the one"?

What people don't realise is that 95% of us is unconscious!  Which means only 5% is conscious and while consciously you may be asking for a particular kind partner, if the 95% believes "I don't deserve someone who loves me", "I'm unlovable", "there's no such thing as the perfect partner", or there are negative feelings towards being in a relationship based on past experience, then you will continue to attract the "wrong" person or self sabotage any relationship you get into that could be perfect based on what the 95% believes to be true for you! 

Doesn't sound like good news, does it... but there is a light at the end of the tunnel, or maybe wedding bells!  I would suggest seeing someone who can help you with the unconscious programming and beliefs.  Anyone who does NLP or Neuro Linguistic Programming, EFT or Emotional Freedom Technique, Kinesiology, Theta Healing or any modality that deals in the unconscious "stuff".  Once you have dealt with your love junk (also known as "relationship stuff"), you will open yourself up to attracting the person you've been dreaming of!  I know I certainly did!!! 

We have had a high employee turn over, what can we do to find people who will stay long term?  It's a costly exercise to replace people...

Well I'd have a few questions to start with such as "do you know why people leave and have you asked them?".  Feedback is the breakfast of champions so while sometimes it's not pleasant, it is an opportunity for you to improve.

I'd also look at how involved in the business direction your employees are.  Do they know where the business is heading?  Do they know how they fit in?  Do they feel like what they do on a daily basis has any meaning to it?  Bottom line; do they feel valued and what is your corporate culture? 

Picture a round rubber dingy with your team in it, now usually the management portion know what the target is and they are personally motivated to achieve it... as you get further down the line, employees are not necessarily as enthused as they could be and could end up paddling in a slightly different, or completely direction... how far or fast do you think they will go collectively towards the goal? 

What if you had everyone focussed on the ultimate destination; the goal, and everyone was motivated to achieve it because they gain something personally for doing so, how fast do you think they would collectively go then? 

Our aim is to assist you to create a corporate culture that does just that.  Research shows that people who feel valued are more productive and likely to be loyal to the company.  With so much choice out there, employees have the buyers market and will choose the company which values them and allows them the most opportunity and flexibility.

Corporate culture is often the key... engage someone who can assist you to look at where the issues may be and what you can do about it.

I never seem to be able to keep a steady weight and food is an issue, I can't help but eat somedays and then I feel guilty for eating and it goes on and on.  What can I do?

First of all, please dump the guilt!  I hear what you're saying and I know where you are.  I did the yo-yo thing myself years ago and even struggled to lose 10 kgs when I was at the height of my fitness and phenomenal diet.  I finally worked it out, thanks to starting on my coaching journey, that I had myself so stressed and obsessed about losing weight that it was the emotions I was living in that were keeping the weight on! 

When I dumped the guilt, sorted out the metal game I was playing with myself and became happy with who I was, it just all fell off!  My diet is not as good as it was then, nor am I exercising like I did and my weight is stable with a kilo or 2 swing instead of a 20kg swing.

Try this for a start... ask yourself what has to happen in order for you to feel good.  Make sure you get all of the criteria, then see if what you've written makes it easy to feel good or really difficult?  Now decide on some new criteria!  For me my new criteria became "anytime I smile I can feel good!"  Isn't that making it really easy to feel good on a regular basis.  I highly recommend standing tall, breathing deep and smiling, it's hard to feel anything but good when you do that!!!

Oh, and hire a good coach to help you change the unconscious "stuff" that is creating some of the guilt!!!

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